* make Buf and BufMut usable as trait objects

- All the `get_*` and `put_*` methods that take `T: ByteOrder` have
  a `where Self: Sized` bound added, so that they are only usable from
  sized types. It was impossible to make `Buf` or `BufMut` into trait
  objects before, so this change doesn't break anyone.
- Add `get_n_be`/`get_n_le`/`put_n_be`/`put_n_le` methods that can be
  used on trait objects.
- Deprecate the export of `ByteOrder` and methods generic on it.

* remove deprecated ByteOrder methods

Removes the `_be` suffix from all methods, implying that the default
people should use is network endian.