java.so: wait for other threads to finish

java.cc would exit right after the main() method finished. But in Java,
this is not the correct behavior. Rather, even if main() returns, we
need to wait for all other threads to end (or more accurately, wait
for all threads not marked with setDaemon(true)).

Calling jvm->DestroyJavaVM() does this for us, and it's probably the
Right Thing(TM) to do anyway.

Before this patch, the Jetty benchmark exited immediately after
startup.  After this patch, its worker threads keep the whole VM running.